Truth hurts. I’m struggling with finding out there’s a whole

Truth hurts. I’m struggling with finding out there’s a whole bunch of things my wife is telling me that she never did before. In fact sometimes the opposite. Like I’m not really a good kisser. My shaven down hair style makes me look sickly. My glasses are ‘out dated’. Im wondering what else I was told to ‘pump my ego’ I guess but she must be totally embarrassed about me.