Okay so everyone knows making friends as an adult is hard enough, but making friends as a sober adult is a whole. new. animal.
I’ve been in recovery for a few years now, but I still tend to deal with some social anxiety when it comes to putting myself out there to meet new people.
For me, what’s been really useful is to remind myself that anxiety and excitement are VERY similar sensations. So, when I start feeling anxious about going to a new meeting or talking with a new sober person, or even being on a sober panel, I try and redirect that energy in a more positive way.
Anyways, what have you guys found to be helpful when it comes to making new connections after getting sober - now that booze and bars are off the table (thankfully!)?