Is it weird that I try to keep my sobriety a secret 
Nope. People don't respect it. Though I understand where you're coming from, don't hide it.
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Be proud of how far you've come.
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You may not like this, but the reason I, and many of us, keep our sobriety a secret is because we don’t want other people to judge us when we fail.
Sharing your sobriety not only gives you support, but it also adds a level of accountability.
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Actually people will respect you more for trying those that don’t are the ones with there own problems
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Good point. Thx.
You should do whatever works for you. There is not one right way. If keeping your sobriety a secret works for you than go for it!
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Totally agree about accountability!! Share with others that have the same problems and/ or loves you unconditionally. ( that’s hard to find. We constantly share our time sober in AA to help each other out of love.
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