I want sobriety. My girlfriend doesn't what's the right thing

I want sobriety. My girlfriend doesn't what's the right thing to say to her to make her realize I'm sick and tired of being sick and tired

How about good bye ? Your sobriety must always come first.

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I agree with sara

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Adios works too.

If someone doesn’t support my sobriety they aren’t worth a nanosecond of my time left on this earth.

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Goodbye and run.90&90

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Bye bye girlfriend!

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Well. How much do you value her and how much do you want sobriety?

Have you guys been dating long?
Does she just not to be sober herself? Or does she not want you to be sober?

It's different for everyone... But unless you can be sober around someone who isn't, then the best thing is to part ways. Some people will try to sabotage your sobriety to keep you.

I just got a divorce because my s/o didn't want to accept my sobriety is first.

She may never get it. I hate that you are in that situation. Just remember two people can't travel down the road together unless they agree to it. You may have to choose your life, or her.

You can’t worry about her just do you it’s gotta be her choice. If you find that you can’t be around it then you’re gonna have to make the hard decision.

You cannot be in a healthy loving relationship with someone who is an enabler or who will not support your journey. You may love them very much, but love yourself and sober you more. Its the only way you’ll succeed.