Heyyy.. Just joined. Is anyone dealing with their partner using while

Heyyy.. Just joined.
Is anyone dealing with their partner using while you yourself are trying to get clean ??! Getting to the point where idk what to do anymore. I feel like I'm giving so much energy trying to encourage him to stop using that its almost pointless cause he uses anyway.. Not saying I'm giving up just saying this is so dam draining !!!!! Ughh

I'm in the same boat. I am trying to get/stay sober and my fiance uses. Obviously a huge trigger for me and has lead me to relapse. We've been together 10 years and have 3 kids.

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Dam girl I feel you. My dumb ass relapsed last night smh.. Its def a trigger for sure. Only thing we can do is take this one day at a time. And never give up

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